FOR THE WOMEN THATS FED UP!

[~Genie~]

Ok sorry guys, but I had to do it. LADIES, this is for us...
When you get in a fight with your significant other, be it hubby, boyfriend,lover, whoever. What is the thing they say, that you hate the most. That you could spit nails over, draw your fingernails over a chalkboard for?

I hate it when no matter what we fight over, every single fight, I hear this same old guilt trip. And it is not SAID, or SPOKEN CALMLY, but it is YELLED:
"well, Im sorry I bust my ass working to pay these bills, that I dont have any time for you or the kids, I work my ass off, what more do you want from me?"

Ok, so what does he want? A medal. He does what every other MAN and WOMAN does in this country to pay bills and live life. Working as the head of the household, is his job, thats what he is suppose to do and he makes it sound like I dont do shit all day, like change diapers, feed the kids, wash clothes, wash dishes, vacuum (every day whether it needs it or not), bathe the kids, take our son to his daily outings and projects. This is all my job as well. Im not complaining. But I dont give him a guilt trip either.

SO LADIES, what is the one thing, you hear from your man, hubby, lover, boyfriend, whoever, that like I said, drives you up the wall?


[This message has been edited by ~Genie~ (edited June 29, 2001).]

[*Leo the Lioness*]

there's too many to list! *LMMFAO*

[^GOD^]

*hands tissues all around* boo hoo

[2CUTE]

*points to the door* USE it GOD...you dont belong here *kicks him in the ass as he leaves *EG

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Jesus loves you...but everyone else thinks you're an asshole!

[~Genie~]

*LOL* @ 2, we still love ya GOD. we didnt say YOU personaly, we are talking about the men we actually here this shit from! *LOL* But thanks for the tissue! *LOL*

[Më£ïñÐa]

yeah! shut up! God!

*L*

ummmmmm! I gotta go get some aspirins i have a headache! oh! those ones arent good enough they dont do anything for me.....
I'll be right back...

Thank God! that ment weeks...

[~Genie~]

OK, another one i thought of, is why do the men treat women of the house like secretarys . Telling us, "ok, you need to call, this place, this place, this place, that place, you need to check on this, you need to check on that"?
What is their dialing finger broke. And then we actually do what they tell us to do, of course ITS NOT DONE THE RIGHT WAY! then we get yelled at, if its not done how they would have done it. Then they should have got up off their ass and done it theirselves to begin with! MEN! pppfftt! *LOL*

[This message has been edited by ~Genie~ (edited June 29, 2001).]

[WARLORD]

i have to on this one.
how about on days off and before work cleaning the house, watching the kids, taking the kids places, doing the dishes, oh and cooking, etc. to add to it work. then to top it all off to be treated like nothing more than shit day in and day out.
not looking for a medal but maybe a little a little grateful what a husband and dad does.
being a mother is a thankless job, but some of us let the other know how we feel and thank them for the thankless jobs they do.
it goes both was, some of us guys aren't all bad...
oh i can fold fitted shits with the best...*LOL*

[~Genie~]

Sorry WAR, and guys can post thier stuff here to, I am just talking about the same old dam lines you here every time you get in a fight with your significant other. I know there are guys like you out there. My hats off to you, and from someone who is treated the same way, I knwo what its like. WE all appreciate ya here. And I hope you hadnt taken this all the wrong way, the topic and all. Basically, its whats the one thing you are tired of hearing every single fight. The one that that drives ya up the wall. And WAR, keep up the good work with the kids, because atleast your not a deadbeat dad, and your a man that truly loves and cares for ya kids!

[WARLORD]

i wasn't up set, just that it goes on both sides and as it was so vividly pointed out to me (not on the net) that men don't always see the side of what women do. as i said a mother and wife is a thankless job done very well....*S*